Vincent Alton Godleski, 88, of Califon, New Jersey, passed away peacefully at home surrounded by family on September 7, 2025.

Born on March 13, 1937, in Brookline, Massachusetts, Vincent was the son of the late Vincent and Margret Godlesky. He was a devoted husband, father, and grandfather, remembered for his warmth, sharp wit, and lifelong dedication to family and community.

Vincent graduated from Wesley High School in 1954 and Kimball Union Academy in 1955. He went on to earn his degree in Electrical Engineering from Tufts University in 1959 and completed his Master’s of Business Administration at Dartmouth University’s Amos Tuck School of Business in 1962. While at Tufts, he was a proud member of the Alpha Tau Omega fraternity.

Beyond academics, Vin distinguished himself on the ice. As co-captain of the Tufts hockey team, he earned All-East honors before embarking on a lifelong commitment to the sport. His passion carried into officiating, where he co-founded the first U.S. referee school and went on to serve as President of the NIHOA Metro NY/NJ chapter and USA Hockey Atlantic District Referee-in-Chief. Over three decades, he helped shape generations of referees, with many advancing to the NHL and collegiate ranks. Among his memorable contributions, Vin was called to the NHL stage during the famed 1988 “Mother’s Day Game” between the Devils and Bruins, a moment that underscored his deep ties to the game he loved. He also served as an Off-Ice Official for the New Jersey Devils from 1982 until 2019, proudly supporting professional hockey for nearly four decades.

Professionally, Vincent built a distinguished career as a sales executive with Scientific-Atlanta, a pioneer in the communications and cable television industry. His talent for connecting with people and his relentless drive earned him Salesman of the Year honors multiple times during his tenure, a reflection of both his professional excellence and his personable approach to business. Colleagues respected him not only for his achievements but also for the humor, charm, and integrity he brought to every interaction.

On July 9, 1960, Vincent married the love of his life, Barbara, with whom he shared 65 wonderful years of marriage. They built their lives at their family home and garden in Califon, New Jersey.

Together, they traveled the world and created countless memories. One of their greatest joys was visiting Hilton Head Island, where they loved to ride bikes and enjoy the beauty of the coast.

Vincent’s presence was magnetic-his charisma, quick wit, and genuine warmth could light up any room. He had an extraordinary ability to bring people together, to make them smile, and to inspire those around him. His guiding word was “motivation”, and he embodied it fully: time and again, he made remarkable comebacks, continuing to skate and pursue his passions until he was 87. This same drive infused his personal relationships; Vincent never gave up on anyone and always encouraged others to be their best selves. Hockey was a passion, but family was his greatest devotion. So deeply did he cherish his loved ones that he affectionately earned the nickname “Coach” among his family, a testament to his unwavering guidance, support, and love.

Vincent is survived by his beloved wife, Barbara; his children Eric Godleski and wife (Helen), Kevin Godleski and wife (Kirsten), and Kristin Vinzce and husband (Bela). He also leaves behind his cherished grandchildren: Aubreigh Godleski and husband (Mathew), Couper Godleski, Madison Carothers and husband (Paul), Rachel Wood and husband (John Thomas), Karissa Vinzce, and Alexa Vinzce. Vincent had recently been given the news he would become a great-grandfather, as Madison and Paul will welcome their first child in March 2026. He is also survived by step-grandchildren Marissa Donnelly and husband (Kevin), and Thomas Gordon and wife (Patricia), along with step-great-grandchildren Adara Donnelly, Owen Donnelly, Tyler Ehrhardt, and Olivia Gordon.

In addition to his parents, Vincent was predeceased by loved ones who now welcome him home in eternal rest. The family finds comfort and peace picturing him lacing up his skates and gliding across the ice rink in heaven, doing what he loved most.